No Guessing Game
Sometimes being in a relationship can feel like a puzzle or a game even. With a relationship agreement, everything is laid out straight so there are not uncertainties. At least, until Sheldon finds your loophole.
There is no need to “test the waters” for your significant others’ boundaries. They are all outlined specifically in the agreement, such as when hand holding is allowed.
Everyone remembers words differently. If an agreement is in writing, then there will always be proof of the precise terms of the agreement. No more “You promised you would make dinner once a week!”
The relationship agreement ensures that there are no surprises. Literally. Maybe this is for you and maybe it is not, but sometimes it’s nice to know exactly what each half of a relationship can expect from one another.
There will never be any talk of things being “not fair” because each person had their chance to put in their say. The relationship agreement builds in compromise, and through compromise, it builds equality. Thank you, Sheldon and Amy, for showing us the meaning of an agreement.